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The mind-growing effect of living abroad

I’ve lived abroad a few times in my life.  The first time was when I was 21 years old and worked in New York for a year as an intern.  The second time, I went to live in Agadir, Morocco, for three months.  And the most recent time was in Costa Rica for six months.

The locations and experiences were very different, but there was one thing they all had in common.  The level of personal growth I experienced was phenomenal.  I changed and grew in so many ways that I never would have experienced if I stayed settled and working in the UK.  I’m grateful for all of these experiences that in some way shaped the person I am today.

Having lived in London already, the transition to New York was quite easy.  Especially because everyone spoke English.  Looking back, I realise the largest part of why this experience was so much fun was having a large group of intern friends who were just as curious and eager to explore and enjoy NY as I was.  Having friends to share adventures with is a wonderful thing.  I loved the buzz of life, and knowing my time was limited meant I made the effort to do as much as I could as quickly as possible.  Having to start a new life in another country somehow made me very assertive.  I wasn’t so worried about what others thought of me as before.

Morocco was a completely different experience.  It felt very ‘foreign’.  I didn’t understand any Arabic and I was forced to make use of my school French and develop my language skills.  I enjoyed the hustle and bustle of a less modern world, like buying all of your fresh fruit and veg from a market stall, and appreciated how everyone took the time to relax.  Agadir is based by the beach, a beautiful place, and it’s where I learned the importance of enjoying life, remembering to take things slowly once in a while and enjoy the beautiful views.

Costa Rica is a very beautiful country, and the experience of living there was nothing like what I expected.  Funnily enough, it’s where I learned to enjoy relaxing at the beach properly with friends.  I used to find sitting at the beach quite boring before, but I finally understood the joy of spending hours in and near the sea.  I loved living in Quepos, a little village near Manuel Antonio on the coast, for six weeks.  I adored being surrounded by tropical forests, humming birds and I even had a tear in my eye when I saw a flock of wild scarlet macaws near my home.  It makes me feel so awful when I think of how these beautiful red parrots are only seen in cages around the world.  Being immersed in nature was an amazing experience, as were the horrific thunderstorms I witnessed (from the balcony) in rainy season.  Truly magnificent!

Moving to San Jose, the capital of Costa Rica, made me appreciate all the things I’d taken for granted about living in London.  I kind of assumed that all capitals across the world were similar to London – international, full of work opportunities and great restaurants!  It turns out that’s not the case.  I found the language barrier to be a barrier in getting to know the locals, another reason to improve my Spanish skills.  I also enjoyed the opportunity to visit rainforests, waterfalls, beaches and volcanoes around Costa Rica.  One of the highlights was visiting Tortuguero and going kayaking for the first time… by myself… with a random dog that insisted on joining me!  It was amazing and I loved ‘adventure dog’, he was awesome.

I learned a lot from my time living abroad.  Living somewhere is completely different to just visiting a place for a weekend or a week.  You get a different feel for the place and understanding of the culture.  I learned that people are kind and helpful, but most of all, I learned that I can rely on myself.  That gave me a lot of confidence in myself – knowing that in a foreign situation you can and will always find a solution for what you need.

I also learned and realised that sometimes you can’t control everything.  Things happen in life, and you just have to go with the flow.  I learned to let go of a lot of my life expectations, and sometimes the distance from ‘home’ also helped me to accept and let go of the past.  Making the effort to step away from your everyday life helps you to see life from a different perspective.  Somehow, travelling and living abroad really helped me to grow spiritually and accept everyone and everything more than before.

Going to new places makes your senses come to life as you have to pay attention to everything around you.  It’s a great opportunity to meet new people and experience different ways of living.

I’m grateful that I’ve had these opportunities to experience personal growth, and I’m aware that this kind of growth would have been very limited if I hadn’t travelled and lived abroad.

I realise that living abroad is usually a huge step, but I highly recommend it to anyone who is considering it.  Most people actively manage their career growth, but I think personal growth is just as important in life, if not more.

 

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Costa Rica: San Jose, Monteverde, Volcan Poas and Manuel Antonio

It’s been a month since I moved to San Jose, and I have mixed feelings about it.  It’s a loud and busy city.  And it doesn’t help that I’ve been having stomach pains for the past two weeks, which is very unusual for me.  The doctor tells me I have an inflamed colon!  So I am taking medication and taking it easy.  Unfortunately, it’s not helping how I feel about being in San Jose!

On the plus side, teaching has been going really well and I was pleased to have positive feedback from my students.  I also had a friend come to visit me for a week – the perfect excuse to do some travelling in Costa Rica.  That’s one thing that San Jose is great for – it is the travel hub for the country so pretty easy to get to anywhere.

Our first stop was Monteverde for a night, about four hours away by bus.  Monteverde is beautiful and famous for its cloud forests.  We stayed at Pension Santa Elena hostel, a no frills place.  In the afternoon we accidentally joined an adventure zip line tour.  My friend and I bailed after the practice lines as it was just too scary!  In the evening we went to the serpentorium for a guided tour which was really interesting.  They have a number of snakes and frogs that are native to Costa Rica.

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Dinner was at the Tree House, a really lovely restaurant with a unique venue.  There’s a tree in it.

The next day, we went to Selvatura Park for their hanging bridges in the cloud forest and the hummingbird garden.  This was definitely the highlight of the whole week of travel.  The bridges were high up in the trees and the views were outstanding.  I intend to go back!

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We had lunch at a nice place called Amy’s Restaurant before heading back to San Jose.

The next day, which happened to be Christmas day, we went on a tour of Volcan Poas, the Dakota Coffee estate and Sarchi Arts and Crafts.  The tour was really brilliant and I recommend it highly.  The volcano was covered in cloud when we arrived but fortunately cleared after 20 minutes for some spectacular views.

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The Coffee tour was really interesting and full of information.  And the Arts and Crafts was really just a big shop full of tourist stuff, but still interesting to see.  It was great that they picked us up and dropped us back off at the hotel for the tour.

And finally we went to Manuel Antonio for one night.  It takes about four hours by bus from San Jose.  Most of the first day was spent at the beach, and the following day we went to Manuel Antonio Park.  We rolled up rather foolishly at 10am to find the queue was over an hour long.  The wise thing to do is turn up early – say 8am.  It was completely worth the wait and we hired a guide so actually got to see some animals like sloths, bats, frogs and monkeys.  We stayed at the Cabinas Maria Teresa, which was a really nice treat with air con and a lovely shower.

It was a great week of travelling in Costa Rica, and I’m looking forward to doing some more!

 

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Speak of the devil, I got the hummingbird photo!

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What a beauty!

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One month since the move to Costa Rica

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Today marks one month since I arrived to Costa Rica, and it has been a great month.  I have felt so many moments of active happiness and joy, where I catch myself thinking ‘wow, this is beautiful’ and smile to myself for being here.  I have watched beautiful sunsets, swam in pristine oceans, hiked through forests, seen wild sloths, monkeys and iguanas, watched hummingbirds in my host family’s garden – in fact, there is a hummingbird teasing me right now as I have been trying to get a photo of one!  They always disappear by the time my camera is in my hand.

That is just the natural beauty side of Costa Rica.  I’ve also really been enjoying my TEFL course.  It’s been challenging and interesting, and I’ve been enjoying teaching classes this week.  I’ve met some wonderful people, teachers and students, who I have been fortunate enough to enjoy this adventure with.

I think I’m starting to miss London a bit, the convenience of so many places to go to and see.  I do love Manuel Antonio and Quepos, with its beaches and nature on the doorstep, but I’m quite looking forward to heading back to the capital, San Jose.  I have been offered an English teaching position with a school – I’m not sure if it’s quite the right one for me so I will send out a few more applications and see what happens.

I’m really looking forward to investigating more of this beautiful country…

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An update on the move to Costa Rica!

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Two weeks after my arrival to Costa Rica – and I have to say that I’m starting to feel quite at home here!

I spent a lovely few days in San Jose at the Hotel Presidente http://www.hotel-presidente.com, which was a nice way to get over my jet lag (there is a six hour time difference from London).

I then took the 4 hour bus ride to Quepos near the west coast, where I was met by my host family.

Costa Rica is certainly very different to the UK.  It’s a lot hotter and sunnier, and everything is in Spanish!

San Jose is quite a small capital (most are compared to London) but busy and lively enough.  Quepos, on the other hand, is a very small town surrounded by luscious greenery and lots of wildlife.  There are plenty of lizards and birds to be spotted in the trees.  I go to sleep to the soothing chirruping of bugs and wake up to a chorus of the local cockerels.

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My host family is really nice.  I have my own room, get to practice Spanish at home and am fed fresh Costa Rican food everyday!

So far I’ve enjoyed two hikes through the rainforest.  One was a trip to find a waterfall (unsuccessful), the other to visit a beautiful secluded bay that cannot be accessed by the public.  That was a really tough physical trek for me!  But completely worth it!

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I also enjoyed a whale watching day trip to Uvita, which is 1.5 hours away by bus.  My group was very lucky to find a mama humpback whale with her baby within 20 minutes of leaving the shore.  And we saw a pod of dolphins too!  Our guide told us it was quite rare to see both on the same day.

My TEFL (Teaching English as a Foreign Language) course started last week in Manuel Antonio, which is 15 minutes away by bus.  I have a great teacher and lovely classmates.  The course itself is a little intense, but I’m learning so much and think it is really beneficial.  This evening I have been working on a lesson plan for a lesson that I will be teaching tomorrow!  They have certainly thrown us in at the deep end – with a lot of help of course.

The pros:  change of lifestyle and scenery, adventure, meeting different people, sunshine, improving my Spanish, enjoying learning

The cons: Quepos is very humid (San Jose is cooler and drier), a lot of mosquitos

Overall, very good 🙂 and just the change I was looking for.

This weekend, I plan to visit the local market, go to Manuel Antonio wildlife park and veg out on the beach.

In the longer run, after my course is complete I will head back to San Jose to look for work.  Mainly because I prefer the climate, but also because there should be more work available there.  So far so good!

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I’m leaving my job. And moving to Costa Rica.

After four years in my London 8-6 office job, I have decided to take drastic action and leave to do something amazing.

I am moving to Costa Rica to teach English.

Now don’t get me wrong, this was not an easy decision to make.  However, my need for change, adventure and my growing dissatisfaction with work meant the decision was made relatively quickly.

I had the idea in June.
I booked the course and flights in July.
I left work in August.  My last day was Friday the 14th of August (ten days ago).
I will fly out on the 13th of October, giving me some time to sort out any loose ends before I leave.

I chose Costa Rica for its abundant wildlife (I originally planned to take time off work to do a wildlife volunteer project with turtles there) and because I intend to be fluent in Spanish one day.

I did intend to teach English in the sun (Spain) one day – when I retire.  But while I was thinking about what kind of jobs I wanted to apply to now, I thought to myself ‘why wait?’.  Why wait to live a life in the sun, doing relatively flexible work and living somewhere I enjoy?

Stepping away from friends, family, a steady job and steady income to step into the unknown is a BIG STEP.  I have never been to Costa Rica so this is a big leap of faith.  And I am reminding myself that if I don’t like it, I can always come back or go somewhere else.

I do know that I will be doing a one month TEFL course (Teach English as a Foreign Language) in Manuel Antonio, near the beach, and staying with a host family for six weeks.  I don’t know what Costa Rica will hold for me in the long run, this is something I will have to find out…

This is a challenge, that I *think* I am ready for!

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